Everything happened has their reasons. We might feeling ups and downs, and even worring. It is okay as our thinking system is performed like a traffic light, and you will not panic when you driving ?
Even when you drove near the traffic light you will only slow down to wait for the signals and make a decision to stop or keep going, right?
This is surrender and wait for the signs!
We all can surrender and enjoy the being.
Relax, he could not eat your roses off 🙂